You can never make someone do something they do not want to do. They cannot want do anything unless they are motivated to. The only want to do that is to be self motivated. Here are a couple of ways you can motivate yourself each day..
It starts in the mind. Think positive
No matter what you are trying to do, if your thoughts are not positive then you will end up demoralizing yourself or talking yourself out of the good you are doing. Therefore, every single day, always fill your mind with positive thoughts. Think of the good results your efforts will bring forth. By doing this, you will realize that your days go better than you had expected. Remember, people see exactly what you see. If you look at yourself and think you are a failure, people will look at you and think the same.
Get out of your comfort zone
It’s great that you are always looking for ways to give you good results. To get great results, you have to do something different. This means getting out of your comfort zone. It means trying something new. This can be perceived as risky- you know, why mess with success. Think of it this way, buy getting out of your comfort zone and doing something new and different, you a chance to increase your success rate. If the new thing does not work out, you learn a lesson from it. so challenge yourself, try something new every now and then.
Dare dream big
Dreams are the beginnings of every amazing journey. Everybody whose made it started out by dreaming it. Visualizing their dream and plotting on how to achieve it. Now, instead of telling yourself to focus on reality, dare dream. And don’t leave it at that. Dream, and then do something about it. Dream then start making it a reality. Now, there is a catch here. The reality that you want so much is so dependent on the dream you have and how bad you want to make it come true.
Don’t be afraid of making mistakes
Mistakes are great. They teach us lessons that only make us better. You get to learn what not to do and while reviewing what went wrong, you get to come up with a perfect way of getting to where you want. Mistakes also teach us not to take things for granted. This will teach you how to stay at the top and not come down faster that you can say ‘I made it’. if you look at mistakes like this- as a building block, then you will not be scared of making them.
Your journey to success is bound to have some difficulties. In some cases, you will stop and look at what you’ve done and realize that it was all based on a mistake. That will mean that you have to discard everything and start over again. Just remember, that each time you make a mistake and learn from it, you are at a better place than the last. Quitting will only mean that you did not learn a thing from the initial endeavour and will only repeat the same mistake the next time you try doing something different. So don’t ever quit.
This is the one thing most people seem to ignore. Being happy is not exactly a strategy that you can write down and check on later if you achieved target. It’s a matter of how you feel throughout the day. When you are feeling happy, you’ll realize that you are light on your feet. You work faster and interact with people better. In addition to this, when you are happy, you are able to have positive thoughts. This helps keep you right on track. If you are not happy, you’ll notice that at the day you are tired and a little depressed.